Billy the Ex-Bethelite

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  What is dating as a JW like

  by UFCFan in

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  first off i want to say that i'm a teenager which makes my situation interesting.

  i don't want to give too many details in case someone i know reads this but i'm between 14 and 18, homeschooled, and i've been awake for around one or one and a half years.

  i already have a plan to attend usc or wisconsin university if i'm smart enough to get in and then move to san jose and try and get a job working for a hs football team or with a soccer team, since i want to coach sports or be an agent.. now, this all sounds great in theory but there's one thing i've been thinking about that makes me doubt my plan.

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  What's it like dating as a witness?

  To some extent it depends on the congregation and your family. I've known plenty that were disastrous, as you've described. And if you so much as touch her boob, you could find yourself being harassed by the BoE. And if you don't touch her boob, but someone else says they saw you touch her boob, you could find yourself being harassed by the BoE.
  

  Would it be worth it to stay home a few more years?

  Not in my opinion. The way your plans sound, you need to keep moving ahead. If this relationship doesn't work out, those years will be wasted. If this relationship does work out, you will have to be prepared to "stay home" forever, give up all the other things you want and live as someone you really aren't, and you will never get to know any of the other "worldly" women that would love you for who you really are.
  

  And how's strong is the pressure to get married?

  It won't just be pressure that your relationship will be chaperoned and headed to a wedding, you will be pressured to be a MS and "do more" in the congregation.

  There's a girl in my congregation who's the same age as me and I really like her. Not like a crush that you have for a month or two and then move on, I've liked her since I met her which was 3+ years ago.

  I don't want to come across as belittling your feelings, and I have known plenty of couples that have been together since preteenage. But in my experience, although I had plenty of heartbreak with "sisters", I'm now very glad that I dodged every one of those bullets!
  
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  Am I a Luciferian??

  by freemindfade in

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  so my uncle wrote me a long letter out of concern, it was filled with bit of love and concern here and there but also a lot of staunch dogmatic and at times down right disturbing thoughts and assumptions.

  if you doubt the bible or jw.org, seems even close family feels you are on a one way track to death by godville.

  anyway, he accused me of being a luciferian.

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  Hmmm, I guess I'm a mixture of Luciferianism and Pastafarianism.
  
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  The "Singing Contribution Box"

  by stuckinarut2 in

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  2. beliefs

  so when will this idea be tried?

  we have all seen the singing literature trolley /cart song disaster that was shown in feb 2015.. i can just see this new idea appearing on jaydubyabroodcastin soon:.

  a singing contribution box that invites all to donate to the org..... "i have slots, give me lots,.

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  Dang, did I kill this thread?

  I really wanna see a singing contribution box on GB TV!
  
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  You will never grow old in this current system of things... - Awake, May 22, 1969 p. 15

  by cappytan in

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  check this out.

  got this bound volume from my dad.. .

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  most would say: "that's old light"

  Indeed. Those dates that they have on all the magazines are actually expiration dates. They lose their freshness immediately after distribution and have the shelf-life of bananas.

  And as we know, the study books (The Truth that Leads to Eternal Strife, What does the Bible Really Bleach?, etc.) have the shelf-life of a can of tuna.

  And now with their new strategy of just using a website, anything and everything can be replaced or tossed at random.
  

  So rather than wasting time, energy, gasoline, and other resources, the best way to keep up with where Jehovah's chariot is heading is to take the current litteratrash, along with the whole singing cart, and your "old light" windowless Kingdumb Haul, and pitch it all in a dumpster. After all, the difference between old light and new light... well really, it's all old light.
  
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  Had a major blow out

  by freemindfade in

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  my mom was emailing a group thread of rhetoric about isis and armageddon, and i finally got sick of it and said some pretty intense harsh things about ideals, and wishing for armageddon.

  then it went back and forth like some debate, all the while i am holding back unloading serious ttatt on my family.

  i put a whole bunch of scriptures where the wonderful yahweh committed infanticide.

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  • Leave it to JWs to argue that it's someone else's fault for not protecting the children.
  • God's celestial chariot needs some crushed baby bones under the wheels in order to get traction.

  I wasn't sure which of these sick comments to post, so I gave it both barrels.
  
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  The "Singing Contribution Box"

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  so when will this idea be tried?

  we have all seen the singing literature trolley /cart song disaster that was shown in feb 2015.. i can just see this new idea appearing on jaydubyabroodcastin soon:.

  a singing contribution box that invites all to donate to the org..... "i have slots, give me lots,.

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  Love it!

  How about "Jesus' Money Box"

  From the Bible we know that in the days of old,
  Jesus took collections of everyone's gold.
  He took from the rich, and the orphans, and the widows,
  Because he needed to build halls with flat roofs, and A/C, and windows.
  Entrust Jesus with our money? Of course we can do this!
  Because he entrusts his money box with the faithful apostle Judas!
  
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  JUST WONDERIN BOUT THE G.B..... again.

  by brandnew in

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  growing up, i never ever even saw these guys faces, or even knew their names.

  all of a sudden they're on my computer screen, tv, and on every other magazine coming out of the watchtower machine.

  why all the glamour now?

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  All of a sudden they're on my computer screen, tv, and on every other magazine coming out of the watchtower machine. Why all the glamour now?

  Hey, they can't help it that they're the most important people on earth. It's not like those crackers and wine were going to eat and drink themselves!
  
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  Tower of Babel—unlikely to be a true account!

  by abiather in

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  when his children want to construct a tower that reaches to the heavens, heavenly father is unlikely to respond, saying: nothing they plan to do will be impossible for them.

  come, let us go down and confuse their language so they will not understand each other.

  (gen 11:6, 7).

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  Here's a thread about the population issue:
  

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/202031/tower-babel-built-babies

  Here's a video not posted on JW.borg, but it should be:
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJTaODGxsd0
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  JW Table at My Student Center Today, My Response

  by breakfast of champions in

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  they're baaaack!!!

  jws "tabling" at my student center again, first time in over six months.

  i wonder if the fact it's been 15 degrees out had anything to do with it?

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  I never saw JWs at my campus. But there were little brochures available in many locations entitled something like "How to Protect Yourself from High Control Religious Groups."
  
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  Neanderthal man

  by scary21 in

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  my ex husband and father of my daughter was never baptized but is still a believer in the wt.. a couple years ago we were talking about evolution ( which he does not believe in ) i brought up the subject of the neanderthals and how we all have their dna except africans ( the ones that never left africa ).

  he said neanderthals are apes and not humans and jw's do not teach that they are humans.

  i said i believe they do.. in the life- how did it get here book, under the sub heading " the human family "is says " neanderthal man....... was undoubtedly human.. his response was " they are just talking about what other people believe " ahhhhh .

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  Billy the Ex-Bethelite

  Billy the Ex-Bethelite believes it's still uncertain ( that was a surprise)

  LOL! Actually, I've studied enough biology and anthropology (and religion) that I wouldn't say I'm "uncertain". However, it's not my area of expertise. In my opinion, Wikipedia has good coverage of current research and hypotheses. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neanderthal

  And I didn't want to get too involved in the debate since I'm a member of the "About 5% Neanderthal Club" and would get my feelings hurt if this turned into a "kill the 'non-human' Neanderthals" thread.
  

  The point I was trying to make was to encourage the JW ex-husband to look into the rather fascinating subject for himself. He might "evolve" into an ex-JW.